Illinois Estate Planning and Elder Law Blog

Last week, I shared ways that surprises in one’s will can cause stress and difficulty for family members after someone passes away. Here are a few more reasons it is best to be open with your loved ones about your estate plan.

The kids ‘don’t always get along’

In cases where inheritance is not divided equally or when someone is written out of a will entirely, things can get very messy. This is especially true if the decedent does not explain their reasoning for this decision.

Handling the estate of a parent who has passed away can be very emotional for children, and this process can be even more emotionally tumultuous if their parent’s estate plan contains unexpected surprises. In cases where assets are not split evenly among children or there is an heir that comes forward that was not known about, children may feel pain or betrayal.

According to a 2022 Ethos survey of 1,000 adults, although 68% of Americans say that discussing end-of-life preparations with loved ones is important, only 47% have done so. 34% of millennials are unsure if their parents even have an estate plan according to a 2024 report from online estate planning service Trust & Will.

Clients choosing to not share information about their estate with their heirs can put estate planners or financial advisors in the challenging position of sharing this information after the client’s death.

Although planning for your death is unpleasant, it’s important to take the time to do so for your loved ones and family that you will leave behind after you pass away. Things such as a will, power of attorney, and wishes for your funeral and burial are all important parts of this plan.  In addition to this, especially in our world today, planning for your digital legacy is just as important.

“I think a lot of us take for granted how deeply intertwined our lives are with the digital world,” says James Crosland, an estate planning attorney at Rockville, Maryland-based Stein Sperling. “Ignoring that can really leave a confusing mess for loved ones to handle, and even lead to security risks or loss of important data.”

Crosland’s recommendation is to start with an inventory of all your devices and online platforms. From there, you should designate emergency access to them. Many social media platforms make planning for your digital legacy straightforward.

This week (October 21-27, 2024) is National Estate Planning Awareness Week. Congress passed a resolution in 2008 for this to occur during the third week of October each year as it is estimated that over 120 million Americans do not have up-to-date estate plans to protect themselves and loved ones if they become ill or pass away. If you do not yet have an estate plan in place or if your estate plan is not currently up-to-date, now is the time to begin that process or to revisit your estate planning documents.

You will want to update your plan if your net worth has changed significantly since you created the plan or if you have had any of the following life changes occur:

1. Marriage, divorce, or remarriage. You’ll want to make sure an ex-spouse will not unintentionally inherit your property.

According to recent data, the majority of American investors in committed relationships say they trust their significant other and that both partners share the same retirement goals. However, over half of them have not yet put an estate plan in place.

According to Ameriprise Financial’s “Couples, Money & Retirement” report, which was released earlier this year, 95% of couples agree they are honest and transparent with each other about their finances, with 91% reporting that they share the same financial values.

Even so, many have not reached an agreement when it comes to a number of emotionally-charged decisions related to money.

Estate plans aren’t just important for older adults with large estates, they are also vital for young adults who own any assets to ensure that these assets will be handled according to your wishes should something happen to you. In this post, I’ll share about the documents you need to have as a part of your estate plan.

What Documents Are Needed for An Estate Plan?

The documents you will want to include in your estate plan may vary depending upon the specifics of your situation, but for those who are young and single, you might only need a few relatively simple documents including a will, a durable power of attorney, and an advance directive. You may want a trust to control the management and distribution of your assets if you have substantial wealth. Here are some basics about each of these documents:

There are a number of milestones associated with young adulthood – such as landing your first job with a 401k, opening a savings account, owning a car, or buying your first home – that mean that you have an estate. An estate refers to your possessions, including tangible personal property (your home, car, furniture, jewelry) as well as bank accounts, investments, pension, and life insurance policies. If you do have an estate, it is essential to also create an estate plan. Estate plans aren’t just for those with large “estates” and a lot of wealth. Having an estate plan can ensure that your possessions will be handled how you wish should you become incapacitated or pass away.

What is an Estate Plan and Why is it Needed?

An estate plan is a set of legal documents that you can use to outline your wishes for the management and distribution of your assets upon your death. You can also use estate planning documents to communicate who you want to carry out your wishes in the case of your death or incapacity. Without an estate plan, the court could choose someone you do not want to manage your estate, and your possessions could end up going to individuals you do not wish to have them.

The person you choose to be the executor of your estate could be a relative, trusted friend, or even a professional such as an attorney or financial planner.

In some cases, your choice for executor may be very clear to you. If your spouse, for example, already knows your finances well, is skilled in the types of duties required, and is “ready, able, and willing” to take on the responsibilities associated with this role, it may be logical to designate them as executor. You may also have an adult child who first comes to mind as the best fit for this role. However, there isn’t always an obvious best choice.

Here are aspects to consider when it comes to your choice for executor of your estate: